Everyone, at some point in their life will experience the moment when they have nobody beside them. No shoulders to rest on, no arms to be embraced with. Desperation and sadness sometimes are mixing in condition of being alone, because some people can’t handle the feeling of loneliness. When they give up on themselves, the loneliness will slowly crush them from the inside.
Even so, that doesn’t mean the loneliness has no meanings. When you are truly alone, it will be the moment when you’ll be really appreciate the pleasure of companion. When you have no one to rely upon, you’ll learn how to stand up on your own feet. Being alone will teach you many things and it will help you dive deeper into yourself.
Standing alone in a crowd, will make you realize things you won’t notice when you’re with someone. You’ll be able to hear the earth singing, and the desperation of each human who’s living on it. Being alone isn’t necessarily a bad thing if you can use it as an opportunity to know yourself and take a better look at your surroundings.
So you, the one who’s been sad all the time in the corner of your room, stand up and go out! Face the world with its loneliness and bitterness. Learn how to like yourself and to lead a full life even when you have no one with you. Even the one you’ve been waiting all your life won’t just come knocking on your door. You need to go out and make an opportunity for such person to find you!
Stand up straight and walk proudly, my friend. Make peace with the loneliness and at least life won’t be so bitter anymore! Don’t fall deeper and let yourself down, don’t give up, happiness is something you achieve, not something falling from the sky. Don’t let your loneliness beats you and take your chance to find your happiness. Who says you can’t achieve happiness on your own? You can and you should slap your happiness in front of the face of people who says otherwise!!
If you can’t be happy with yourself, you won’t be happy either with someone else. Because happiness is something you find in your heart. So, Smile and live proudly even when you are alone!